My short opinion is yes they can in open meetings as observers but there are plenty of other A groups for problems other than alcoholism. In closed meetings only people who desire recovery from alcoholism ought to attend because new alcoholics that don't have drug histories will have trouble identifying with drug addiction which can be quite different than alcoholism. The focus is effectiveness of AA. AA addresses one problem, alcoholism. Amongst new attendees who use both drugs and alcohol, as well as an unfortunate amount of drug counselors there exists an attitude that drug addiction and alcoholism are same thing. According to AA they are not and in my experience they are not. There are quite a few things different about addiction to alcohol as opposed to addiction to heroin or cocaine.
I will say this. AA does have a singleness of purpose. And for good reason. The
short form of the 3rd tradition states
"a desire to stop drinking" However the long form states "Our membership
ought to include all who suffer from alcoholism. Hence we may refuse
none who wish to recover." So, what I see here is the short form being a
summary and the long form being a more in depth explanation which states "all
who suffer from alcoholism" The big book is pretty plain about it's
description of alcoholism. Loss of control - a two fold disease of body
and mind. Complete inability to control drinking using will power. There
are plenty of other A groups for people who have problems other than
alcohol. Let AA be for alcoholics. (I am an addict too but got sober and
clean in AA and don't announce myself as an addict) The good news is
there are groups who have charters and meeting introductions that
plainly state that their group is for alcoholics or people who think
they have a problem with alcohol. They invite others to stay and happily
direct them to other A groups after the meeting. If AA fellowship
becomes a catch all for any problem under the sun the real alcoholic may
find it very difficult to identify, never get the chance at recovery
and pay the ultimate price. Groups should make an effort to read literature and practice the traditions in meetings. AA is not as effective if the fellowship becomes a vehicle for those who wish to
attend meetings as a social vehicle, or to make friends, for self help, sex
addiction, drug addiction etc... It's too bad but I see a lot of that.
Awesome! I love it. The only thing I would add is that non alcoholics are only welcome in open meetings AS OBSERVERS! In a meeting of ALCOHOLICS Anonymous , Only ALCOHOLICS may participate in sharring, reading, 7th tradition contribution Etc
ReplyDeleteYes, good point. Only as observers. Not participants.
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